How to brush your child’s teeth properly

From the first tooth to the teens: how much toothpaste, which brush, how often – and how to turn brushing into a game instead of a battle.

4 min readNancy Chaliasou · Pediatric dentist

From the first tooth (0–2 years)

Brushing starts as soon as the first tooth appears – usually around 6 months. Until then, wipe the gums with a clean damp gauze after milk.

  • A baby brush with very soft bristles and a small head
  • Fluoride toothpaste (1000 ppm), a “smear” the size of a grain of rice
  • Twice a day, always before sleep
  • Child lying on your lap so you can see well inside the mouth

Toddlers and preschoolers (2–6 years)

At this age children want to “do it themselves”. Let them try – but a parent always finishes the brushing. Their hands don’t yet have the skill to clean the back surfaces.

  • Toothpaste with 1000–1450 ppm fluoride, a pea-sized amount
  • Teach them to spit and not swallow – and not to rinse with water, so the fluoride stays on the teeth
  • Two minutes, twice a day – a song or a sand timer helps a lot
  • Change the brush every 3 months or when the bristles splay
Nancy’s tip

Brushing before bed is the most important one of the day. After it, only water – no milk, no juice.

School age (6–12 years)

The first permanent teeth appear – the “six-year molars” behind the baby teeth, often without anyone noticing. They have deep grooves and are the most vulnerable to decay. Until 8–9 a parent checks and “finishes” the brushing.

  • Soft brush, regular amount of toothpaste (1450 ppm)
  • Start flossing when teeth touch each other
  • Electric brush? Yes, if the child likes it – it makes brushing easier and more fun
  • Fissure sealants on the permanent molars protect the grooves

The right technique in 4 moves

  • Brush at a 45° angle towards the gums, small circular movements
  • Outer surfaces, inner surfaces, chewing surfaces – in order, so nothing is forgotten
  • Two or three teeth at a time, without pressing
  • Gently the tongue at the end

When brushing becomes a battle

Almost every family goes through this phase. What works in practice:

  • Brush in front of them – children imitate
  • Let them “brush” a plush toy or you first
  • A two-minute song or a timer app
  • They choose their own brush and toothpaste flavour
  • Never punishment or threats with the dentist – the dentist is a friend
Nancy’s tip

If your child refuses persistently for weeks, tell us at the next visit. There is often a reason – a sensitive tooth, a mouth ulcer – that is easily solved.

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